Bobby Flay Separates From Wife … Divorce Looming

EXCLUSIVE

“Iron Chef” Bobby Flay cooks his steaks medium rare … but his marriage is well, done, and divorce is right around the corner.

Sources accurate to the couple tell TMZ … Bobby and his wife, “Law and Order: SVU” star Stephanie March, separated 3 weeks ago. Flay went out of their NYC home.

We’re told both have hooked up with attorneys … and divorce discussion have…